Where's the Permission To Grieve?

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Q U I C K    O B S E R V A T I O N  #3



H E A R T B R E A K !

Infertile couples grieve an idea,
a concept {
conception },
an objective.
Infertile couples grieve the idea
of having a child.

Live, for real, moms grieve their
ALIVE children
who have been lost via adoption.
Imagine:
 The loss of YOUR child!
Look at him
!
Look at her
!



Why are we writing so much about family right now?

Infertility and The Baby Business has been in the news alot lately; as opposed to just a few years ago when adoption, and in vitro fertilization, and egg selling, and sperm selling, and surrogacy, were done more stealthily; heretofore, these secret concoctions - including the concoction of adoption - were concocted underground out of the sight of mainstream society. { Just perhaps you might be doing something wrong if you must hide what you're doing? Do ya' think? }

So what else is new?
Another medical mistake:


On February 16, 2011, the media reported that a married Ohio woman with three kids was implanted with the wrong embryo via in vitro fertilization. { Why does fertilizing cow manure come to mind? } The woman mistakenly, and unintentionally, gave birth to someone else's child.

AGAIN we had to suffer through, hear about, THE HEARTBREAK { exact words } { Why does the commercial about "the heartbreak of psoriasis" come to mind? } of couples not being able to procreate yet we have NOT ONCE heard in the media, or anywhere else, about the heartbreak of losing a child via the trick of adoption. Why is the reporting by the media so one-sided!?

Why are infertile couples pushed to the forefront and why are single moms pushed to the background? In American society infertile couples have greater status than single parents!

American society:
  1. rallies around, cheers on, supports infertile couples who grieve IDEAS and concepts - as if the couples are gods
  2. shuns, ostracizes, real mothers who grieve ALIVE children { lost via adoption } - as if the mothers are pariah { Single moms are human beings, too! }
Single mothers of alive, existing, children are punished, pushed to the background, underground, like social outcasts & criminals - simply because of their marital status!

What kind of a society does that!?


Aha!

We think we've hit on something - single moms must be PUNISHED doubly! { by a misogynistic society } That's it! Now we see the picture much more clearly:

  1. First, the hateful, purporting-to-be-religious, society will punish single moms by forcing { brainwashing, entrapping } them into giving their children for adoption. Then, our society will make these moms go away! "Get out of our sight!" Throwaways! Garbage! We want no reminders of the families we have separated and traumatized!
  2. Then, the jealous & the haters { men & womenwill punish single moms, again, a 2nd time, by not allowing these moms to grieve their losses. "Go alone into your own little corner of the world - and lick your wounds - like animals! { Albeit, we know that even our beloved animals empathize with each other and comfort each other. } Go away and pretend it never happened!"
What kind of a callous, punishing, society does that!?

This ostracism by a society is cruel and inhumane - barbaric punishment! What kind of a society asks it of its members?

Think of an adoption as the death that it is!

Death - grief - must be acknowledged! Grieving does not occur in secrecy! Grieving only occurs in the healthy light of day! Let's give these victims
permission to grieve! Let's have them tell us in the media how wonderfully the loss of their children via adoption is working for them! Don't pick and choose what you report. Be ethical - we know it's difficult for you: Dare to acknowledge these victims and their losses in the media!
You know, like you kiss up to infertile couples!

Where, oh, where are our beloved religious fanatics and their, "Treat your neighbor the way you want to be treated," and "Love your neighbor as yourself," and "Do not envy your neighbor's belongings."

One of the 10 Commandments in your Catholic Bible commands that:

"You shall not covet your neighbor's house. You shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor his male or female slave, nor his ox or ass, nor anything else that belongs to him."

Oh, by the way, your beloved Catholic Diocese believes that in vitro fertilization is morally despicable and wrong! According to your religion, "you" are in the business of sin. Sinners, you know who you are.

Where, oh, where are our beloved religious zealots now!?

Can you think of a greater tragedy than the loss of your real alive child!?

* Please check out other entries in this blogcast for
exact definitions of baby-making terms.


T H A N K S
F O R
   R E A D I N G !


 

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